The Wiggly Finger
As you may know, one of our core teachings is, “YOU are the change that you want to see within your child”. I want to teach you a technique called the Wiggly Finger.
When you find yourself pointing your finger at your child, BRING IT BACK TO YOURSELF.
Understand that your child is mirroring you and understand that your child is a manifestation of your subconscious.
Here is a growth challenge: become a detective and become super curious. Every time you point your finger at your chid, bring the finger back and ask yourself the question that you are asking your child. Understand that whatever the trigger is that is making you feel this way; it is starting with YOU. More often than not, it has very little to do with your child’s behaviour and a lot to do with what the child is stirring up inside of you.